This week we were provided with a multimedia program that had one message delivered three different ways: written, voicemail, and face-to-face. We were to read/listen to each message and jot down our interpretation of them and what changed from one form to the next. Below is what I thought about the different deliveries.
In the e-mail message, my interpretation was that Mark was holding a very important puzzle piece to the project and Jane needed that in order to complete her report. The tone read a bit threatening using a lot of “I’s” and what she needed and not seeming very understanding in the end that he is a part of other projects and in meetings all day. It read as though Mark would be the one to blame if her deadline was missed.
In the voicemail message, my interpretation completely changed because I could hear the tone of voice so I am not misinterpreting how the message was meant to be conveyed. It appeared less threatening and more understanding and trying to work with Mark to get the reports completed. She seems to emphasize the importance of his report and how it will help her complete her report. I still do not like the wording about how she may miss her report’s deadline if she doesn’t get his; however, I did take it this time as more of a sense of urgency than thinking Jane would blame Mark if she misses her deadline.
In the face-to-face message, my interpretation didn’t change too much from the voicemail. The benefit of this was seeing her body language and how friendly she was making her appear to be more approachable. She conveyed that she needs his report to finish hers (still having a sense of urgency) and truly willing to accept it in many different formats, whatever was easiest for him.
Out of the three variations in delivering the message, the one that conveyed the true meaning and intent of the message to me was face-to-face. The voicemail worked well for me too, but I think seeing how approachable she was in person, helped take away any threatening tones. Her communication in person was the most effective also because her attitude, body language, and tone influenced her message in a positive way (Stolovitch, n.d.). If I were working on a project with her, I would be more willing to take time out of my busy day, finish up my report (if that hasn’t already been done), and send it to her as soon as I could.
From this exercise, I saw how not every message should be conveyed via e-mail. E-mail is our primary form of communication these days and I know I forget how important it can be to just walk over to someone’s desk and meet them face-to-face or at least a phone call if they are not nearby to talk to in person. If e-mail is the only way to send the message, Dr. Stolovitch (in his video Communicating with Stakeholders) presents some key information to keep in mind:
- Begin with a clear purpose
- State the situation
- Include possible solutions
- Indicate if a sign off is required
- Specify the form that the response is required to take
- Keep tone of all communications business friendly and respectful
I also learned that my tone (in e-mail or in person) has a big influence as to how people will take my message. I tend to appear stand-offish to people when really I am more than willing to help. Therefore, my tone and body language need to convey my willingness to provide assistance when needed and not convey that I may be annoyed or bothered by the request. Dr. Stolovitch’s video and this exercise have helped me see why some colleagues aren’t as open to coming to me when they need to and that is on me, not them. In addition, I have learned that in any form of communication (written, voicemail, or face-to-face), it is essential to keep your audience in mind and avoid any ambiguity in the message so there is clear communication to all involved. This is especially critical when working on a project team so that there isn’t any miscommunication on people’s responsibilities, deadlines, scope creep, any changes, any issues, etc. An important question to ask before deciding on how to convey the message is “How is the best way of communicating this message so its true meaning is conveyed?” I will certainly be asking myself that question from now on so that the intent of my message comes across clear.
References
Stolovitch, H. (n.d.). Communicating with Stakeholders. Laureate Education, Inc. Retrieved November 15, 2010, from http://sylvan.live.ecollege.com/ec/crs/default.learn?CourseID=4603378&Survey=1&47=6260654&ClientNodeID=984650&coursenav=1&bhcp=1